My aunt is blaming me for my cousin ually harrasing me!?

no one should touch you without your consent. you should stay away from him and never allow yourself to be alone with him. that being said, maybe you should evaluate the impression you are sending, your profile picture is projecting you as a ual object...so when you get objectified it should not come as a surprise. your aunt is probably tired of her husband flirting with you, have you encouraged that? when people dress like your picture all they want is attention regardless of who it might embar, hurt or offend. good luck!